A pack of wolves or dogs have a leader of the pack, and this male leader is declared the alpha male. There are many animal groups that have this hierarchy established, for the alpha male gets whatever female he desires and he has clout in the process of making decisions.
In human society, this direct comparison breaks down a little bit. But if one wants to find a woman and learn how to make a girl like you, they need to establish alpha male ‘tendencies.’ This last word is important, for there are elements of being an alpha male that can be a bit too much. For example, a person may be naturally reserved and quiet. Being a full blown alpha male would be unrealistic and potentially ill-fitting. The best strategy is to account for one’s own personality in establishing an alpha male consistency.
So how does an alpha male act? There are broad strokes that most people seem to easily understand. There is a lot of confidence going on, and an alpha male portrays that confidence in a natural way. But it goes deeper than that. Below are a few tips and strategies to being an alpha male that go below the surface.
Decision Empowerment: There is the old question that beta men tend to ask, and it is ‘I don’t know, what would you like to do?’ A man asks this probably because he sincerely does not know, or he feels that the women will be upset with this decision. Alpha males do not care, in a sense. They will make a decision and because of their confidence the woman will enjoy that decision with more regularity. Basically, make a decision and do not always ask for feedback.
Approval Control: An alpha male does not need the approval of a woman to do what he wants to do. He just does it. Consider it a rebel tendency or disinterest, but it really does work in getting a girl to like someone. Seeking constant approval is beta and obnoxious.
There is a lot going on here, but at the end of the day an alpha male wins attention and women. A beta seeks approval and is indecisive.